Girls don't know a nice guy and vise versa

WARNING THIS IS VERY LONG


Sad but true. It's such a shame though. But then again can you really blame them? There are so few genuine nice loving men out there that they've basically become a myth.

When I was in a relationship with Kai, it was good, it just didn't work out. You know it just wasn't right. He only ever did one thing stupid but relationship wise he's a great guy, perfect for a girl which he now has <3

But then I met Chris. See I know I nice guy when I see him and sure as hell I sunk my claws into him as soon as i was able.

See if girls want a guy to be loving caring supportive and all that "mushy" crap that, even if you don't admit it, you dearly want then why do you push them away or treat them like shit?

Embrace them, otherwise they'll smarten up and they'll take their love and perfection elsewhere.

Just like with Chris's ex's. They didn't know what they had. I did and by all means even though there was a lot of fixing I had to help, putting back all the pieces was well worth it in the end because he did the same for me.

See it's the girls who cannot realize the good guys is what makes them vanish from society because you break them down until there is nothing left and by the time a deserving girl gets to him, he's either lost hope or become a cold hearted douche bag.


But then again from all the nice guys I talk to it's hard to find a nice girl so it goes both ways.

Not every girl is willing to listen to his stories or, lets say for stereotypical purposes, be willing to learn about cars or foot ball or other hobbies or interests.

And You know I'm actually shocked by the amount of girls who will actually NOT want to cuddle with their man when the man really wants to.

I was baffled.  I grew up on wanting that affection that pure raw cuddly warm feeling. Who doesn't wanna feel that? Who doesn't love a hug from a loved one?

I've talked to so many guys by my standard, are very worthy of the title "nice guy" and trust my my standards are very high, to know that it's not just the lack of nice guys, it's the lack of nice girls too.

There are so many things a guy looks for in a girl that isn't physical. Yeah sure most guys would like an attractive girl but if you have the personality and the things that lie within the person you become so much more attractive than he originally saw you as.


I'm a short, chubby, normal looking woman. nothing quite special about me, but it's who I am that changes what I look like. I would never see it through Chris's eyes or Kai's eyes in how he see's Kellie ( and myself still to some degree) how they see us as some untouchable goddess or angel but it's the fact that they do that makes all the difference.

I suppose there is a lack of genuine good people on either gender. The media today has ruined our emotion and set the standard for personality and beauty. Girls expected to be flirty, skinny, slutty and have no brain and men to tall thin in shape muscular and dominate and have money.

What ever happened to bigger women were more attractive? i suppose they did away with that decades ago.
And what ever happened to a man bringing the one he loves roses just because? Or kissing her when he got home just to make her smile?
What ever happened to the woman who wanted to settle down and not look at other guys just because she can and doesn't want to be on a leash? to be free?

What ever happened to loyalty, honesty and you know, love?

How can people be okay with cheating because you wanna get off, or that you want someone better? (cheating for love is something different that's acceptable but that's for another rant)

Bottom line is that Love is hard to find these days and that BOTH nice guys and girls are like diamonds. rare, precious and take years and years of hard work to make.

Would you just throw away a diamond? I didn't think so. So why throw away a genuine lover?

Help bring love back to the world and help breed these nice guys and gals back into society. If you find one, treasure it for all that their worth because you may never find one again.


Everyone deserves to find their diamond.